How to survive your first getaway as a couple
Going away together for the first time is a BIG thing. It can signal total make or break. After all, you never really know someone until you live in close quarters with them for a week or more.
Here are our top tips on surviving your first getaway as a couple…
Agree on the location. First things first, you need to make sure that you’re both happy about where you’re going. If you’re imaging a relaxing beach holiday whilst he wants an action packed sporty break then you’re going to need to find a compromise.
Start off small. OK you maybe eyeing up that two week holiday in Cuba but think about starting off with a weekend break before going all in for a full blown two weeker. Not only will it be cheaper so you’ll have more cash to spend on romantic treats but you’ll also suss out if you can spend long periods of time together – just the two of you.
Think about your own habits. It’s all very well thinking about how you’re going to cope with your boyfriends habits but think about your own. Try to minimise any habits you think will annoy your partner.
Don’t expect it to be perfect. You’re probably going to have a bit of a bicker at some point or some other factor like the weather or the venue won’t be quite up to your expectations. So don’t let the little things put a damper on your holiday. If you do have a row move on as long as possible as you don’t want to leave things fester.
Spent time apart. Just because you’ve gone on holiday together doesn’t mean you have to stay together 24/7. Don’t be afraid to go off and do your own thing.
Nothing will test the strength of a relationship like a holiday…so tell us, what tips do you have? Tweet us @urbansocialcom
