Questions you SHOULD ask on a first date
Let’s take a moment to be real about first dates. They’re not all about flirting and being wined and dined. They’re the first step in what could be your next big relationship. Now, we don’t think that you should shine a spotlight in your dates eyes and start the hard questioning but a first date is a great chance to casually grill your potential new love.
Here are 5 questions you should ask on a first date.
Do you have any brothers or sisters? It’ll open up that gateway to knowing what his relationship is like with his family. How he is with his family is a pretty good indication of how he is in relationships.
What is ONE thing that you’re dying to try. Not everyone is an adrenaline junkie or a laid back beach bum so this answer could determine whether you and he are actually suited. If you prefer lazing on the beach rather than mountain climbing then you’re going to want a partner who enjoys doing the same things. Nothing worse than being dragged along on an adventure holiday when you just want to chill.
When was the last time you had your heart broken. OK so you don’t want to hear long, soppy stories about his exes. But if he’s a guy who doesn’t know what it feels like to have his heart broken, he probably won’t think much about breaking yours.
What’s the longest you’ve been in a relationship. Again, you may not be wanting to hear about his ex girlfriends but it is a good question to suss out whether he’s a commitment-phobe.
Where do you see yourself in five years? This is the biggie when it comes to questions you should ask on your first date. Where he sees himself in five years can help you figure out if he’s looking for a relationship or whether he just wants a fling. If he says that he sees himself in a loving relationship then you’ve got a good one there.
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