How to tell if a guy is NOT looking for a serious relationship
We all start dating for different reasons, whether it be to find the one you want to spend the rest of your life with or whether it’s to find someone on your level to just have fun with. But what’s important when you meet someone is that you make sure that you’re both on the same page. Otherwise, it’s going to end in heartbreak for at least one of you.
So here are some top tips for understanding whether a guy is NOT looking for a serious relationship…
- He doesn’t make future plans. We’re not expecting a guy to be planning our wedding just a few dates down the line but if you hit it off with someone, then it’s normal to start looking to the future. Of course there could be a good reason why he’s not able to make firm plans for the future (maybe his job isn’t your traditional 9-5 or he has plans with friends) but if he fails to explain that then its time to move on.
2. He’s cagey around his phone. Now, I should say, I like to keep my phone private, not for any dodgy reason but because it’s mine and that’s that. However, if you find that he doesn’t respond to messages or phone calls, and only when he wants something, then he’s probably not interested.
3. He only does things with you last minute. I don’t think this needs much explaining, if he only does things with you on a last minute basis then chances are that he’s bored and you’re the only one around. It doesn’t mean that he’s actually in to you.
4. He’s friendly to you, but also to everyone else.
You might think he’s overly friendly with you, but fact is, he’s just a friendly, social, outgoing guy. If you see that his behaviour is no different with you than with any other person, that’s a clear sign that he doesn’t have any particular or special interest in you.
5. Bad body language. If he avoids eye contact, sits with his body away from you, doesn’t try to keep the conversation going, or generally maintains a distance from you, you can take all of these as signs that he’s not interested.
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