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How to get over him already

Breakups are crap. We’ve all been through an awful breakup at some point in our lives and whilst at the time, it may feel as though we’ll never get over it, we do and we move on. But if you want to get back on the dating scene faster then here are 5 tips to help you get over him already.

CRY! Don’t put on a brave face to hold back the tears, if you want to have a cry then just do it. You’re not going to mend a broken heart by bottling it up. But do give yourself a cut off date, or else you’ll be crying in to your cereal in 10 years time.

Cut him off on social media. Facebook and twitter are dangerous places when you’re trying to get over someone. Pictures of them enjoying themselves on the weekend or chatting to other  women won’t help you move forward. And let’s face it, ex-stalking works both ways. Just go in to settings and block/unfriend him. It doesn’t have to be forever but its vital whilst you recover.

Start something new. A new hobby or maybe a new workout routine. Do something that’s just about you and that doesn’t hold memories of boyfriend past.

Remember that things will get better. You’re amazing. You’re going to find someone whose ten times the man that your ex was and he will soon be a distant memory. Spend time with friends, watch all those movies that he never wanted to, treat yourself to a spa day – just enjoy your life.

September 24, 2015 BY Rachael Phillips | Relationships

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