A dating tip…
When it comes to dating everyone is always full of advice. Especially those who are already loved up, couples in love just LOVE to give out tips.
But, we’ve been mulling it over here at UrbanSocial.com and we’ve come up with the simplest, yet most effective advice concerning dating you’ll ever need to know…
He either likes you, or he doesn’t.
And equally good advice is…
You either like him, or you don’t.
It’s really THAT simple. Why spend the lead up to a date fretting whether you’re going to be liked or not? It ruins the thrill and it just puts undue pressure on you to try and act in a way other than your wonderful self.
Do you remember that episode of Sex and the City where Miranda realises that it’s OK if her date doesn’t like her. That he’s “just not that in to you” line? Well it’s the same thing.
Once you hop on to that train of thought dating is totally freeing, no more time spent over-analysing WHY they didn’t call or holding back from making cheesy jokes just incase you put him off.
There are million of people out there and it may take a while to find the one but he’s out there somewhere so why settle with someone who doesn’t give you that freedom to be you?
And likewise if you’re not a fan of his. Don’t be a harsh judge of character – after all – first dates are nerve wrecking and he may be trying to impress you by holding back – but if it doesn’t feel right then don’t waste your time trying to push it.
The simplicity of it all is that you can force it, chemistry is either there or it’s not. Why settle for anything less than fireworks?
