Can a one night stand turn in to the real thing?
So you’ve met someone, you’ve taken them home, one thing has ultimately led to another and the next step is saying goodbye the next morning. Everyone has to let go and have some fun but that doesn’t mean that a one night stand can’t turn in to a real relationship that lasts.
Of course one night stands can turn in to something more, but in order to turn it from fling to thing, you need to reset the relationship. You have to be clear that you’re not after bed buddy but an actual relationship.
First off, if you’re looking to extend your night of passion then it’s important that you get the contact details before you say goodbye. It may seem a bit of an obvious step because you’re not going to be able to google “the hot dark haired guy in the club.”
Don’t wait for him to ask for your number either, don’t play games, just ask and when you have it, if you want to see them again, reach out! Drop them a text just to break the ice. Remember to keep it classy, no sexting or saying how pissed you were last night. If you want to take your relationship further you’ve got to show that you’re not just someone to jump in to bed with.
Also, when you go for a date, do something different from the usual bar or club. Show a different side to you because he already knows the party girl side.
However, be wary that they may not be looking for something more than what they’ve already got. If they don’t reply or they don’t seem interested then be honest with yourself and don’t chase and call it quits.
Do you have any stories on how you turned a fling in to a long term thing?
