Are you a booty call?
When you first start dating it can sometimes be hard to know if there’s something real going on or if you’re just a booty call.
Now of course there’s nothing wrong with being a booty call if that’s what you BOTH want but if one half wants something a bit more then it can get a bit tricky.
So, just to clarify – here are some ways you can tell if you’re in a relationship or just a number on his iPhone…
- If your dates don’t include traditional date like activities such as going for dinner or watching a movie and instead centre around heading straight to the bedroom.
- If he isn’t there when you need a chat or when important things are going on.
- If the only communication you have outside of the bedroom is a text to discuss hooking up for more bedroom activity.
- If you’ve never met or he has no intention of you ever meeting his friends and family.
- If he never stays the night.
The thing is, if you’re a booty call – and we’re going to be straight with you here – the likelihood that it’ll develop in to a real relationship is very slim. It’s kind of like being the other woman and always hoping that your lover will leave their wife – you just know that it won’t happen.
So if you can feel yourself falling and you really want something more, do yourself a favour and cut the cord as soon as possible.
We’ve also found this brilliant infographic which should help you decipher if you’re a booty call or a potential Girlfriend.
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