If you’re confident then instantly you’re going to be attractive to those around you. But sometimes, especially if you’ve been through a tough break-up it can be hard to remember what’s truly unique about you.

But you are unique, every woman should be proud of her character so here are a few tips to express some of your unique traits in a positive way…

Your honesty…If your friends always turn to you first for your honest advice then this can be a great trait to put forward about yourself. Men love honest women, we’re not just talking about honest in the sense that you wouldn’t lie or cheat but a straight up, tell it like it is attitude can be a real turn on. However, a word of warning, don’t confuse being honest with being tactless.   There are certain situations in a relationship where honesty isn’t always the best policy and can cross that line in to being insensitive. SO, if you ever have to take a moment to consider whether an honest opinion is warranted, then it’s probably not going to benefit the situation.

Your smarts…Never, EVER dumb yourself down to make yourself more attractive to men. Because you know what? Men love a woman who knows her stuff. Intelligence is a very attractive quality. However, just watch that your not constantly correcting or going overboard in order to prove a point. Just relax, be yourself and show how clever and charming you are.

Your independent…You already know that you don’t need a man to make you happy and that’s what makes you such an amazing catch. You work, you drive, you live alone – successfully – you’re a real independent woman. And that doesn’t need to change but don’t forget to show your independence has a softer side by occasionally letting your fella do things for you. Not everything, you still need to stand on your own two feet but every man likes to feel needed.

Do you have any unique traits that you need to turn around and turn in to positives? Why not share them with us on Facebook.