How to be sexy during phone sex
Forget sexting, it’s boring and impersonal. Instead, let’s go back to the old fashioned days of phone sex – you’ve got to agree that there’s something a lot more appealing about hearing someone’s voice when it comes to getting up to something naughty.
Phone sex is a super sexy way to connect with your bloke. However, and we’ll just throw this out there…it can be a little embarrassing if you’re not used to doing it. But never fear, Urban Social has some top tips to help you sound sexy – not ridiculous – during phone sex.
Plan Ahead: OK so planning ahead doesn’t make for the best sex but when it comes to phone sex you need to make sure that you’d got enough privacy and time to get in to it all without interruptions.
Have an idea of what you want to say and do before you start: Another spot of planning here but practicing to yourself what you want to say will avoid you clamming up and getting nervous when it comes down to the action call. Start thinking about what you’re going to be doing to yourself or what you’d be doing to him.
Get descriptive: Remember he can’t see you, he can only hear you so you’ve got to describe what you’re doing in very fine detail. So that’s everything from what you’re wearing to what you’re doing.
Your voice: If you’ve been together a while then you don’t want to use the same tone that you use when you ask your other half to get dinner on the way home. Instead think about how you can manipulate how you sound. Lowering your voice and stretching out your words can ooze sex appeal.
Don’t know what to say? Ask questions. You don’t want it to just be all about you, it’s all about give and take so get him involved too.
And above all, relax and have fun!
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