Should you continue to date someone you won’t marry?
Whilst dating is fun it does usually have an end goal. Unless you’re only looking for the occasional booty call then it is standard that you’re looking for someone to spend the rest of your life with. But what if you meet someone, you REALLY like them but you don’t think that they are marriage material?
Should you continue to date them?
The simple answer, unless getting married is the be all and end all of your goals then there’s no reason why you shouldn’t continue to have a successful and meaningful relationship. Although, it’s essential that you are up front about things and what it is that you want to achieve.
Think about it, if you judge your dates based upon the end goal of getting married then you’re going to be putting a lot of pressure on the relationship from the very beginning. and that will stop you gaining a real perspective on who you’re dating and how much they enrich your life.
Also, just think, you could be wrong. Just because you don’t think that you’re going to marry that person when you first start dating – it doesn’t mean that they won’t turn out to be absolutely perfect for you. Remember, opposites really do attract.
Have you gone on to marry someone you thought wasn’t for you?
