Finding love fast in 2014!
It’s a New Year and you’re bound to have a list of resolutions as long as your arm. If nestled in-between getting fit and losing 14lbs is finding love then you’re in the right place!
Finding the right person to date has never been a simple task, but now with the power of the internet, you no longer have to loiter around wine bars, go clubbing, raid your friends address book or stalk the aisles of the supermarket to find your Mr or Mrs Right.
So if finding love is one of your goals for 2014? Check out these 7 savvy resolutions to find love fast…
Don’t be half hearted…
If you want to find love then you need to make it your priority. Everyone is busy, but if you make looking for a partner one of your top priorities then you’ll be surprised how fast you will get results. Set aside two nights a week to date and don’t just talk the talk but walk the walk too. Consider this your new mantra for 2014 “I need to my put energy into meeting someone because the odds are, it won’t just happen.”
Know what you want!
There is no point wasting time dating someone who wants different things. Be sure to know what you want to get from dating, are you looking companionship or are you are seeking a life partner.
Spoil yourself…
There is nothing sexier than someone who exudes confidence. Treat yourself to some new clothes, a new hair style, a make over or get down the gym – anything that boosts your confidence. How you feel about yourself definitely influences your confidence level and attracts people.
Enjoy the search…
Take the pressure off and learn how to have fun. If you’re piling on the pressure then you’re going to be disappointed. See dating as a chance to meet different people and experience new things rather than focussing on the end goal. When you are relaxed to what comes your way, you can simply enjoy yourself which once again, makes you so much more attractive!
Realise HOME isn’t always the answer…
Just because you’re sat in front of your computer in your PJs trying to find love, that doesn’t give you an excuse not to go out and get social. If you’re going to have something to talk about on these dates you’re lining up then you need to get out and experience life.
Give people a chance…
So their profile doesn’t mention salsa dancing and they’re in to heavy rock whilst you like a spot of classical, it doesn’t mean that you can’t have a good time together. Get chatting, the phrase opposites attract is there for a reason, give the unlikey a chance, you maybe surprised what you’ll find.
Quit taking things personally…
You know that you’re fabulous, but not every one will agree and THAT IS ALRIGHT! If someone isn’t interested then its not about you, its about what they are looking for. Even if you have a bad date, don’t get discouraged or give up! Finding love takes commitment and hard work, but in the end, it will be worth it.
