Things you don’t need to feel guilty about…
When you’re dating, it’s easy to think that everything will be 100% perfect, all of the time. But that’s not the case. There are times when you row, bicker or feel guilty over things that really don’t matter.
So regardless of whether you’re casually dating or whether you’re in a full on relationship, here are 3 things that you should NEVER feel guilty about.
Checking out other guys.
Just because you’ve found the one it doesn’t mean that you hot guy radar needs to be switched off. Of course we’re not suggesting you do anything more than look – but it’s OK to look at a hot guy if he walks past you. And you know what, it’s ok for your guy to look if he sees a hot woman too. Just taking a look doesn’t mean you love each other any less.
If you’re not in the mood for sex.
In the early days it’s not uncommon to want to be in bed with your man ALL. THE. TIME. But as things progress and life carries on, there are times when you’re just not in the mood. AND THAT IS COOL. Seriously, your libido is a sensitive thing and if you’re not feeling it then just don’t do it.
Hanging out with your friends – or on your own.
I love having my own space. I think there’s nothing better than a glass of wine and some junk on the tv. And that’s something that my boyfriend has to accept. If you want to spend a night out with the girls or have a night in on your own then do it. Never feel guilty about doing your own thing, this creates a healthy balance.
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